CHECK-IN BRUH
Time: 1:22 AM
Location: My comfy ass bed
What the fuck I'm rambling about this time?!: Checking in on your friends
I really need to stop writing these blogs this late when I have work in the morning smh. There’s just something about a dark room and a comfortable bed that brings the creative juices out of me. I also been trying to make it a habit to go to sleep early.. unsuccessful so far but I’ll get there.
So lately I have been thinking about all the love people get when they are no longer here with us. It’s almost like that whole “you don’t know what you have till it’s gone” situation. I feel like when someone dies they get the MOST love. Believe me I get why it happens and I’m not saying it’s a bad thing at all. This scares me though, I personally would like to hear the “I love you” and the “I miss you” while I’m breathing and able to give that love back.
With all that being said I’ve really been on this whole mission to reach out to the people around me and tell them how much I care about them. I’m not saying to hit them every single day and pour your hearts out to them, but it’s good to just to reach out and talk/hang with them. Tell them you love them, ask how they doing, go grab a beer/lunch whenever you guys can. Just the other day I went to grab some coffee with Dro and we just sat there, enjoyed our company and just chopped it up.
I know life can be hectic at times and people get so caught up in their own busy schedules but it’s healthy to check in. You never know what someone may be going through.. they might need that conversation or dinner date. It can also just be refreshing to break that routine and catch up with a friend to get your mind off what you got going on for a bit. Again, it doesn’t have to be some deep heart to heart... go to the park, go do all sorts of foot movements to bad bunny at the club, get some food. Just reaching out and making the effort for the people around you can go a long way.
I challenge you guys to go out of your way and show love after you read this. Go have a sandwich with your mans and em, go throw that throwback pic on the gram, just go and tell the people around you that you care for them.
LOVE
- DAAZED
